No matter what the reasons are for separation of couples who have kids, there is no reason for anybody to be an irresponsible parent. Contrary to common perception that single parenting is a burden because the parent who has the custody of the child will shoulder all the responsibilities in raising the child being a single parent can be fun, too! When single parenting is not effective, many issues among teenagers can pile up along with their sadness over the separation. This is because they feel they are being ripped off with people who they feel they can depend on and would give them for support. Parenting young adults on your own Studies show that one of the major reasons why there are many single parents who have teen rebels is because the latter feel that they are neglected and somehow abandoned by his or her parents. It is also much easier to handle if the single parent have the support of their parents, their relatives, their friends and the whole community as opposed to those who have to move to another place to start anew because of social stigma. It is also easier to handle if you have the support of the partner as with those who get alimony from a divorce or those being supported by a partner that is assigned in another country to work. In Colorado and New York, a known donor may assert parental rights; however, it is unclear if a court would impose any responsibilities on a known donor in the two states. According to a study, the reason why many single women choose to bear a child by donor insemination is because they feel they are running out of time to fulfill the lifelong dream of having a child. This will minimize any discord and misunderstandings between you two. With him or her knowing where their place is, things will be a lot easier to deal with. Involve the child later Although it is not good to involve the child at the early stages of the dating because he or she might be exposed to potential father or mother figures that will quickly disappear as they have appeared; when things become serious, it is good to involve the kid. For many kids, being raised by a single parent is more advisable because they don t have to witness arguments between their parents everyday. It is also good for them because it lessens their fear about being hurt by one of their parents when fights occur. If you are one of those who would want to get out of an abusive relationship but the thought of single parenting scares you, now is the best time to assess the advantages and disadvantages of being in the relationship.