Unfortunately, those who are caught up with work don t have the time to mingle with others in bars and parties which is why many prefer speed dating especially in the city of Chicago. Speed dating allows the person to meet someone and talk about different things for 10 to 15 minutes each. A scorecard is there to rate the individual and if both parties feel the same way, perhaps this could become the start of something big. It will also be a good idea to dress well and be honest when having a conversation because the individual only has a few minutes to leave a lasting impression. After the session, the person should take note whether anyone in the group is worth seeing on a date. This will also be done by the other participants and this is only fair since everyone came here for the same thing which is to hopefully meet someone through the speed dating service. The Cultural Morale Behind Jewish Speed Dating The impact of Jewish speed dating after its introduction by the Jewish Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish Ha Torah is so tremendous that at present it excels beyond the bounds of just the basic necessity when it was at the start conceptualized by the Rabbi for reasons of inter-friendship or mate selection between the Jewish singles to non-Jewish young male and female groups around United States. Those who are looking for love but are too shy to go out or are tied up with work may be able to see it happen by signing up on a speed dating service. Trained professionals will do whatever it takes for the person to find the better half. A very popular website known here and in other cities is Hurrydate. Up-market bars sponsor the meeting exclusively of singles (they specialized more on unmarried males/females), ages 20 to 35 years old who are more adaptive of their personal choices and interests. A single individual could meet a group and decide his/her choice later, when it is more convenient and less awkward not to be so blunt in right-at the moment preference of one from the other. Speed dating has open a most favorable setting for fun seekers, lonely individuals, and especially those busy people who find it hard to deviate socializations with people other than their daily colleagues that bind bridges in-between familiarity and monotony; or, due to long-term acquaintances, posing for acknowledged brotherly/sisterly-mode relationships.