Events can be personalized catering to a specific age group, religious affiliation, work background, hobbies and interests, or particular or peculiar preferences. Such events are designed to increase the participant's chances of finding their match. During speed dating gathering, you'll find the participants sitting across each other with a table in between. Addressed exclusively to ladies in two categories; namely, the lady singles who speed date for the first time; and, the sex oriented/experienced young females such as divorced, widows, and plain play-girls. The male may have a lot of expectations on them either the positive sex expectations, towards results of their encounters on either these types of ladies. What's more is that even if one could find time to set aside for date prospecting, the challenge of finding the right single in the right demographic with the right personality and interests that you are looking for can be daunting to find. After all, the city is so large and how can you meet other singles that you haven't met before within your own circle? You can meet a large number of people in one event which makes it ideal for very busy persons who basically have no time to go on series of dates just to meet someone or for people who have very exclusive or limited social circles to go to. Also, in this dating environment both men and women interact demolishing the age old tradition of men as the aggressor. This means that you should be asking questions that will not allow them to answer you with either a yes or a no. Use open-ended questions. This is one way to determine if they are good conversationalists. 2. Don t ask serious questions that are just too deep or too personal to answer. Save those questions when you really got to know the person or when you are out on a date after the event. What happens in a speed dating event is that men and women are paired together over a series of mini dates. These short dates only last for a few minutes. Normally organizers of the event provide participants with certain guidelines and sometimes they provide cue questions which they could their partners.