In case you become physically or mentally incapacitated, how could you possibly pay your bills and mortgages or conduct transactions at the bank? Imagine your home getting foreclosed because you are physically unable to pay off your home loan while you were undergoing medical treatment in a hospital. In any case, you can choose a person who you trust the most to decide on your behalf according to the available information at that time. That person who you assign as your agent must perform whatever you require even if it runs contrary to his or her own wishes for you. If you want something to happen in a specific situation in the future, your agent must follow your orders even if it is against their will to keep you alive despite your health condition. Most military personnel would provide the power of attorney to their spouses especially if they are away in combat. A close relative could be work as an alternate. It does not always have to be relative or a family member, some would get a non-relative attorney-in-fact. If the principal is also a bit uncomfortable on assigning a lot of responsibilities on one agent, then h/she could get other co-agents. It is not in any way possible to do so. As mentioned, there is a requirement by law for you to fully understand what you are getting into for the document to take full effect. It is advisable that you make a power of attorney even if you do not feel any illness or you do not expect any event that would incapacitate your mental state. The law usually allows the agent to transfer your assets to your spouse (if your agent is not your spouse). However, the law does not allow him/her to transfer any of your properties to any other individuals, even your children. Always seek the assistance and guidance of your private attorney when making or drafting the content and provisions of your power of attorney. After all, what other power do attorneys need than the legal ones, given to them when they became lawyers? What exactly is a power of attorney? Power of attorney does not refer to a power intrinsic to the lawyer or attorney. It is actually given to a person even if he or she is not a lawyer. Still, many of those who are given the power of attorney are lawyers, often family lawyers who are trusted to deal with a wide range of things.