The daters take around three-minute talk just enough to understand each other, or evaluate whether one encounter deserves chance for further dates. Men turn over to the left and the ladies remain in their original places. One date takes to another in a row up until 15, the ladies allowed to meet some 2 to 3 male counterparts with total of 30 daters, after which if the 15th is reached, a break of 15 minutes will follow. One doesn't have to think of pick-up lines just to introduce one's self. This is really a very daunting task for some. With the speed dating structure, men and women are partnered and forced to talk to each other. Sure the time is short, but it does give the guy or girl an opportunity to talk to someone he or she likes. Speed dating of today matches and gives opportunity to interchange types, status, age and genre to such extent that it renders match-making of the olden days totally obsolete in make and perspective. Speed dating became popular in the United States after the introduction of the Jewish Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish Ha Torah; who, in his observations, the Jewish singles were outnumbered by the non-Jewish, and that they should meet each other in groups, in cities where single Jewish are fewer. By the turn of he millennium, speed dating has become a by word in social circles especially after being portrayed in glamour shows like Sex and the City. The process of speed dating Speed dating start off with men and women on each side of the room. Each of these people will be given the chance to talk to the every member of the opposite sex in a series of short minute dates where they can talk about anything they want. Each participant will be given a rating sheet later on should he or she would like to go out with the other person on a real date. Some of these dates will work out while others won t. Since speed dating services have this on a regular basis, the individual can always go back and attend another one in the hopes of meeting someone much better. It doesn't mean you'll be able to find the "one" though. When you do find a match, it will basically depend on the both of you to make it work. Only at this point will you be able to go beyond the first impressions that both of you exhibited during the first time you met in the speed dating event.